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Self Esteem Growth Technique

Self Esteem Growth Technique Self esteem is number 4 in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs  (1943) . Most basic need for human is physical survival (physiological). Then safety, love / family / belongings, esteem and  self actualization. Third in this hierarchy is love and family. Parents love their children but at the same time, they put comparison in front of their children of successful people in their surroundings, without any research and analysis what their children are capable of doing. Four elements (ingredients) make the self esteem; thoughts, feelings, imagination and intuition  (the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning). . Self esteem starts getting hurt / influence in this comparison. If thought is wrong, feelings will be wrong and life decisions on the basis of intuition would be wrong. Suppose a group of 10 in a family or friends; one has good job or position; the rest 9 with low esteem will affect his esteem too with thei

Is Looking Great a Dream

If you look great; world will be happy; world is beneficiary here. But once you got the great vision; now who is beneficiary; we ourselves. Narrow minded thinking means the person is imprisoned in a small box. Compare when you feel happy; in prison and when you are free? This is the result of being  ungenerous (e gotistical, greedy, narcissistic, self-centered, egocentric,  egoistic, egoistical, ego-maniacal, egotistic, hoggish, mean, mercenary, miserly, narrow, narrow-minded, out for number one, parsimonious, prejudiced, self-indulgent, self-interested, self-seeking, stingy). He wants to impose his thinking on each and everyone and no one is there to like this. As a result he becomes more and more unhappy. Vice versa is possible in the same way. This is the advantage of understanding. In reality, human is created with infinite, unlimited potential. Now he has conditioned himself in different type of limitations (prisons) for him. We are not, what we are thinking about ourselves, w

5 Secret Habits

5 Secret Habits 1) Visualization, Imagination; all advancements were imagined and visualized in first instance. Then things turn into reality; Cell phone, computer, aircraft etc. Five minutes before sleeping deep breathe few times. Now visualize yourself as the most successful being of this planet who has achieved each and every possible goal of his life. 2) 5 Minutes Before sleeping throw all your worries in dustbin. Write means transfer your worries from brain to paper. Don't write summary of your worries. Write every word coming in your mind. Make the habit to write down every time when you think about a problem. No matter, even 100 times. Thinking is easier, writing is comparatively difficult. This habit will help you to control your thoughts. Now tear down those papers. 3) Affirmations; It is audio of your visualizations. It is effective in morning time. Write down all of your aims and targets and what can you do to achieve those goals and targets. Read and record th

Build Confidence in Yourself

Build Confidence in Yourself Practice helps to build confidence; 1) Increase your knowledge; subject, profession. 2) Truth builds confidence. 3) Self discovery; know yourself. 4) Trust in Almighty. 5) Practice helps to build; public speaking, classroom, family, Practice helps to build, Practice helps to build. 6) Believe in yourself. 7) Train your brain. Make acting your mind. Tony Robin; Acts before providing training. 8) Use imagination.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gx774cp7OBA With the Courtesy of www.znbbuilders.com www.idealcityliving.com

Six Tips for Business

Six Tips for Business 1) Do unique business 2) Use unique name, easy and different 3) Sell a specific item, focus on uniqueness 4) To grow your business, launch new product with new name 5) Don't tell what you sell, tell what you do; selling food, say as feed hungry people. Selling juice, Quenching thirsty people. Taxi; help the people to get their destination. Don't tell people about your business, tell them what service you provide through your business. 6) Make your customer your salesman. If your customers are satisfied, ask them to promote your business. Even offer them some incentive.  No one can stop you to be successful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5pMjvS_rYk With the Courtesy of www.znbbuilders.com www.idealcityliving.com

Passion

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Passion If you love your profession i.e, your profession is your passion, you will not get tired from work. Teaching gives you respect, recognition. It is not important to live with honor, it is important how respectfully you are leaving this world. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGrWQ6UNbP4 Shauq Tera Agar Na Ho Meri Namaz Ka Imam Mera Qiyam Bhi Hijab, Mera Sajood Bhi Hijab If my prayers are not led by my passion for you, My ovation as well as my prostrations would be nothing but veils upon my soul. http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/search?q=passion Quotes "I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious." -Albert Einstein "Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you." "Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world." "Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will ne

Life and Flexibility

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Life and Flexibility Flexibility plays major role in success of human life. Flexible trees survive in the storms. Today, you cannot use 40 year old computer. In the same way, it will become very hard for a human to survive when he is stuck with his old thoughts. As per requirements of the current situation and demands, one has to adapt the flexibility in his approach. Be careful to become a dust bin part. On birth and in early ages, human is very flexible. As age grows, the human starts distancing from flexibility and a time comes when he becomes fully hard and stiff and is buried. Flexibility ends and life ends. Same happens in relationships, spousal relations, business, job, body. Learn importance of flexibility in life. Team work and team building need more flexibility. An old man told his grandson, on asking about his broken teeth and still healthy tongue; teeth broke due to their hardness and tongue is still fine due to its flexibility. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xC-Vr

Increase Self Confidence and Self Esteem

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Increase Self Confidence and Self Esteem Focus and Make Effort to Grow Your Confidence;  Confidence has immense importance in life. Friends and society can help you to build confidence in positive and negative both ways. If they encourage, it will be easy for you to flourish. But other way around is more common. If you keep on repeating your practice, it will help you to build your confidence. If you stopped practice then you stopped your growth. Recognize and Realize, I am the best;  without being proud. Give respect to yourself, others will respect you. Most of time people insult themselves then people will not respect you. Acupressure point of confidence;  push for 5 min Right hand small finger everyday. Stretch your body;  hands No fast speak;  slow speaking leave great impression, impact; easy to agree. Adds value to your point of view. Eyes contact and hand shake. Use patience and consistency. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0aRUc2fcLQ An-Nahl (The Bee) 16:107 Ø°َÙ„ِÙƒ

12 Habits of Successful People

12 Habits of Successful People 1) Target 2) Clarity in thinking; write your target, writing will give you clear direction; write the steps to achieve your goal. 3) Be result oriented; daily, weekly, monthly, yearly and life targets. 4) Be a life long student; Continue learning new things. 5) Best utilization of time. 6) Prioritize your target list, it saves time. 7) Be decisive 8) No procrastination, have no fear 9) Positive and healthy relationship; it helps you to learn tolerance, understanding and learning new skills. 10) Health; food, exercise, proper rest 11) Honest 12) Well disciplined Unlimited Success With the Courtesy of www.znbbuilders.com www.idealcityliving.com

Life-Changing Advice

Last Life-Changing Seminar - Sandeep Maheshwari - A Must Watch! Speech in MBA College, A girl noticed, I was nervous, I was in ladies toilet – browsing my notes, First speech – some boy shouted – you can do it. Was very shy in early ages. If I can do, anyone can do anything, Memorization doesn’t work; speak from heart, not from head. Commitment # 1: today is the greatest day, unforgettable Commitment # 2: what is my benefit * some conditions apply – here no conditions apply – I never demand any money Commitment # 3: last life changing seminar Everyone is Successful in Specific Area Driving – 2 wheeler, many drivers still alive – a big success, no white can do it – no green, red light follow, success definition change with time / location; someone good in Europe but not in India. Driving, degree, job / business, marriage = a long list of success, everyone is successful. Everyone is not successful everywhere. Only one person can help you to be successful and that is only you –

Two You's

#747, The Two You's   There are two people living inside all of us. Strong; rock, disciplined, confident, positive, faithful, big dream, mostly good, God loving, easy going, committed, kind, defending, good morning, great to see you today, one you in you, new creation, Potential, dreams, spiritual faith modifies the worldly desires and wishes, temptations are not ruling me. Doing right things even not feeling comfortable.  Weak; insecure, compromising, rude you, compromising you, negative, discouraged, discourteous, denying, flesh, say what you feel, holding grudges, good to feed the flesh with no results,  These are contradictions, inconsistencies. But if someone pushes the wrong buttons; rude, harsh; hidden you comes out. Has been hidden for long time.  Battle constantly taking place between two Us. Hidden good nature and redeemed new nature.  Old man get dead but it got resurrected.  Materialistic living will kill you.Your dreams, potential, relationships will die.

5 Life Lessons

5 Life Lessons 'You have to fight to reach your dream. You have to sacrifice and work hard for it.' a) be a life long student;  By the time keep your curiosity flourishing like a child.  b) Passion;  Whatever you do, throw yourself into it, put your heart and mind into it. Make it your passion . Then the time will not be your concern.  c) Helping Others;  'There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.' Help others to rise; Greatness comes not from a position, but from helping build the future.” 'Greatness is not found in possessions, power, position, or prestige. It is discovered in goodness, humility, service, and character.'  d) Consistency;  Leaders are always consistent. You can change your mind but change against inconsistency.  e) Integrity;  competent, courageous, confidence, great communicator; having all these skills would not work without integrity. Accept responsibility as a challenge and obligation, not as

ECG Straight Line Means No Life

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ECG Straight Line Means No Life 'Nothing can destroy Iron, but its own rust can! Likewise, no-one can destroy a person, but their own mindset can'. In the first instance, people say, this can't be done, it's your job to remove those myths and to get things done. In many ways, we have been critical of and sadden by what has or has not happened. To great extent, this has been a function that we can't do this. Don't grow with a view that something can't be done. You, the youth, are going to be the leader and shaping the destiny of future. Look at the world around you, where ideas were born, individuals started from garages; Microsoft, Apple, Amazon, Google, Facebook. Technology don't require billions of dollars to establish. They don't require 100s of acres to build on. They are build on ideas from mind. Non traditional, untried and sometimes risky ideas; made big difference. Nobel prize laureate will not tell you about himself, others will tell you

Four Life Lessons

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Four Life Lessons Courage; He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life. I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear. Empathy;  Caring and sharing with every human being; The more we care, the higher we grow. It is the wealth of your heart, the more you spend on others, more wealthy you become. Have absolute faith in technology and talent;  Unbeatable creativity and innovation is the output. Value Trust, Loyalty, and direct heart to heart relationship; Today human has a lot more potential than ever before. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Phny_fxNJY Reh-e-Yak Gaam Hai Himmat Ke Liye Arsh-e-Bareen Keh Rahi Hai Ye Musalman Se Meeraj Ki Raat “For courage, the Arsh‐i‐Barin is only a pace away” The Mi’raj’s night is saying this to the Muslim. Qayamat Hai Ke Fitrat Sou Gyi Ahl-e-Gulistan Ki Na Hai Baidar Dil Peeri, N