Increase Self Confidence and Self Esteem

Increase Self Confidence and Self Esteem
Focus and Make Effort to Grow Your Confidence; Confidence has immense importance in life. Friends and society can help you to build confidence in positive and negative both ways. If they encourage, it will be easy for you to flourish. But other way around is more common. If you keep on repeating your practice, it will help you to build your confidence. If you stopped practice then you stopped your growth.
Recognize and Realize, I am the best; without being proud. Give respect to yourself, others will respect you. Most of time people insult themselves then people will not respect you.
Acupressure point of confidence; push for 5 min Right hand small finger everyday.
Stretch your body; hands
No fast speak; slow speaking leave great impression, impact; easy to agree. Adds value to your point of view.
Eyes contact and hand shake.
Use patience and consistency.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0aRUc2fcLQ

An-Nahl (The Bee) 16:107
ذَلِكَ بِأَنَّهُمُ اسْتَحَبُّواْ الْحَيَاةَ الْدُّنْيَا عَلَى الآخِرَةِ وَأَنَّ اللّهَ لاَ يَهْدِي الْقَوْمَ الْكَافِرِينَ
That is because they have chosen the life of the world rather than the Hereafter, and because Allah guides not the disbelieving folk.

Esteem

Naam Leta Hai Agar Koi Hamara, Tau Ghareeb
Pardah Rakhta Hai Agar Koi Tumhara, Tau Ghareeb
It is the humble and the poor who still my name esteem, Theirs is the word, theirs is the deed, Yours the shame they redeem.
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/search?q=esteem


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