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Self Esteem Growth Technique

Self Esteem Growth Technique Self esteem is number 4 in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs  (1943) . Most basic need for human is physical survival (physiological). Then safety, love / family / belongings, esteem and  self actualization. Third in this hierarchy is love and family. Parents love their children but at the same time, they put comparison in front of their children of successful people in their surroundings, without any research and analysis what their children are capable of doing. Four elements (ingredients) make the self esteem; thoughts, feelings, imagination and intuition  (the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning). . Self esteem starts getting hurt / influence in this comparison. If thought is wrong, feelings will be wrong and life decisions on the basis of intuition would be wrong. Suppose a group of 10 in a family or friends; one has good job or position; the rest 9 with low esteem will affect his esteem too with thei

Is Looking Great a Dream

If you look great; world will be happy; world is beneficiary here. But once you got the great vision; now who is beneficiary; we ourselves. Narrow minded thinking means the person is imprisoned in a small box. Compare when you feel happy; in prison and when you are free? This is the result of being  ungenerous (e gotistical, greedy, narcissistic, self-centered, egocentric,  egoistic, egoistical, ego-maniacal, egotistic, hoggish, mean, mercenary, miserly, narrow, narrow-minded, out for number one, parsimonious, prejudiced, self-indulgent, self-interested, self-seeking, stingy). He wants to impose his thinking on each and everyone and no one is there to like this. As a result he becomes more and more unhappy. Vice versa is possible in the same way. This is the advantage of understanding. In reality, human is created with infinite, unlimited potential. Now he has conditioned himself in different type of limitations (prisons) for him. We are not, what we are thinking about ourselves, w

5 Secret Habits

5 Secret Habits 1) Visualization, Imagination; all advancements were imagined and visualized in first instance. Then things turn into reality; Cell phone, computer, aircraft etc. Five minutes before sleeping deep breathe few times. Now visualize yourself as the most successful being of this planet who has achieved each and every possible goal of his life. 2) 5 Minutes Before sleeping throw all your worries in dustbin. Write means transfer your worries from brain to paper. Don't write summary of your worries. Write every word coming in your mind. Make the habit to write down every time when you think about a problem. No matter, even 100 times. Thinking is easier, writing is comparatively difficult. This habit will help you to control your thoughts. Now tear down those papers. 3) Affirmations; It is audio of your visualizations. It is effective in morning time. Write down all of your aims and targets and what can you do to achieve those goals and targets. Read and record th

Build Confidence in Yourself

Build Confidence in Yourself Practice helps to build confidence; 1) Increase your knowledge; subject, profession. 2) Truth builds confidence. 3) Self discovery; know yourself. 4) Trust in Almighty. 5) Practice helps to build; public speaking, classroom, family, Practice helps to build, Practice helps to build. 6) Believe in yourself. 7) Train your brain. Make acting your mind. Tony Robin; Acts before providing training. 8) Use imagination.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gx774cp7OBA With the Courtesy of www.znbbuilders.com www.idealcityliving.com

Six Tips for Business

Six Tips for Business 1) Do unique business 2) Use unique name, easy and different 3) Sell a specific item, focus on uniqueness 4) To grow your business, launch new product with new name 5) Don't tell what you sell, tell what you do; selling food, say as feed hungry people. Selling juice, Quenching thirsty people. Taxi; help the people to get their destination. Don't tell people about your business, tell them what service you provide through your business. 6) Make your customer your salesman. If your customers are satisfied, ask them to promote your business. Even offer them some incentive.  No one can stop you to be successful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5pMjvS_rYk With the Courtesy of www.znbbuilders.com www.idealcityliving.com

Passion

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Passion If you love your profession i.e, your profession is your passion, you will not get tired from work. Teaching gives you respect, recognition. It is not important to live with honor, it is important how respectfully you are leaving this world. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGrWQ6UNbP4 Shauq Tera Agar Na Ho Meri Namaz Ka Imam Mera Qiyam Bhi Hijab, Mera Sajood Bhi Hijab If my prayers are not led by my passion for you, My ovation as well as my prostrations would be nothing but veils upon my soul. http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/search?q=passion Quotes "I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious." -Albert Einstein "Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you." "Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world." "Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will ne

Life and Flexibility

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Life and Flexibility Flexibility plays major role in success of human life. Flexible trees survive in the storms. Today, you cannot use 40 year old computer. In the same way, it will become very hard for a human to survive when he is stuck with his old thoughts. As per requirements of the current situation and demands, one has to adapt the flexibility in his approach. Be careful to become a dust bin part. On birth and in early ages, human is very flexible. As age grows, the human starts distancing from flexibility and a time comes when he becomes fully hard and stiff and is buried. Flexibility ends and life ends. Same happens in relationships, spousal relations, business, job, body. Learn importance of flexibility in life. Team work and team building need more flexibility. An old man told his grandson, on asking about his broken teeth and still healthy tongue; teeth broke due to their hardness and tongue is still fine due to its flexibility. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xC-Vr