Real Beauty

Real Beauty
Beauty industry which is based upon look is very superficial, is of very low level. It can attract you for a while until that's quiet. By misconception, apparently it is superseding, annulling, overruling, ousting, taking over. Next is confidence. Some people portray themselves as confident but have no depth. That's not real beauty. Things which attract ourselves; money, look, personality (one can develop, may be fake); may not be real beauty. Real beauty is; once we got attracted then never leave it; we have no control on us to get out of it. When you feel some vibration, energy and attachment without saying anything; is a type of beauty. Beauty and love work together. We have two options; # 1; we feel energy somewhere and attach to it, dependent; in case of any mishap, will be looking for someone else. You will get strangled in comparison and will get anger. Both side would feel strangled; time (not like before), comparison (with more people). Happiness and satisfaction is temporary. # 2; make and prove ourselves like that. Happiness and beauty move side by side. Frustration and boredom move together. If you are happy deep within, you are disengaged what is going on outside. Now this beauty has no comparison. For this inner happiness, we would need two resources; internal and external. External; be in with one to whom you like. If that is not possible then it would be a problem. Once you become addict or dependent upon external resources for your pleasure, at any point of time they may manipulate / blackmail you - food, cell phone have their own limitations; all external sources have pros and cons, exhaustible. There is possibility that we can discover internal source for our happiness which would be unlimited, infinite, have no side effect, totally in our control, never ending, never exhausted. But no body talks about it. People talk about to hurt each other, show offs, full of envies, full of jealousies.
That internal source of happiness is our point of view to look at this world. In one instance, we have nice outer feelings; but in other instance, now we have nice point of view. We look at everything as marvelous. Now we can see nelofar flower in mud. But infected observer will find some defect, spots in the moon too.
Develop a vision to find pleasure in everything. Everyday you are going in company for job; you can think yourself as owner of the company on the way when going on job; this is wider vision.
Beauty, elegance, loveliness; is integral part of wider vision. This supreme quality is not for narrow-mindedness. Selfish, rich, handsome, well looking; so outer great but narrow vision. self-centered; preoccupied with oneself and one's affairs; in religion and other myths; he has developed and living in his own philosophy.
You will enjoy more with the company of great vision personality. Here he is starting from humanity. The wider the vision, more impressive the personality.
What is better option here; be in contact with a person of wider vision or creating and developing this great quality in self. Ghar ki murgi dal barabar; Self possessions are always undermined and other's possessions seem better. This all depends upon vision and point of view. Vice versa is also possible.
What is important; do we look great or we have great vision so that we can see beauty in everything. Flower and garbage have some difference. If you look great; world will be happy; world is beneficiary here. But once you got the great vision; now who is beneficiary. We ourselves.
Narrow minded thinking means the person is imprisoned in a small box. Compare when you feel happy; in prison or when you are free? This is the result of being ungenerous (egotistical, greedy, narcissistic, self-centered, egocentric,  egoistic, egoistical, ego-maniacal, egotistic, hoggish, mean, mercenary, miserly, narrow, narrow-minded, out for number one, parsimonious, prejudiced, self-indulgent, self-interested, self-seeking, stingy). He wants to impose his thinking on each and everyone and no one is there to like him. As a result he becomes more and more unhappy. Vice versa is true in the same way. This is the advantage of understanding. In reality, human is created with infinite, unlimited potential. Now he has conditioned himself in different type of limitations (prisons) for him.
We are not, what we are thinking about ourselves, we are something else. It is very easy to understand. There are two point of view to look at this universe. a) This universe is like a flowing stream or channel. Never stopping and changing every moment. Our bodies are like waves of flowing stream. We have defined the parameters of beauty (allure, artistry, charm, delicacy, elegance, good looks, grace, refinement, style, adorableness, allurement, attraction, bloom, class, comeliness, exquisiteness, fairness, fascination, glamor, handsomeness, loveliness, polish, pulchritude, shapeliness, symmetry, winsomeness) and ugliness (crudeness, inelegance, roughness, disadvantage, homeliness, offensiveness) according to our location. Beauty and ugliness changes person to person, location to location. The changing thing is not fact, it is a lie. So all waves are identical. If one is restricted in one wave (self-centered), where there billions of waves (fast, slow, big, small). He would never realize beauty of universe. Everyone is in competition to become # 1, it doesn't matter for him to leg down others; it has no beauty in it.
We can see some smiling faces in this world but inside is very much sad to the degree of shock. We became alone, isolated. We forget that we are part of a big wave (parents). All (each and everyone) small waves trapped in individualism thinking. I, me, my. Wishes, demands; all based on selfishness. Even parents for kids have wishes based on their own fulfillment of wishes. No need to become stupid (dull, dumb, foolish, futile, ill-advised, irrelevant, laughable, ludicrous, naive, senseless, shortsighted, simple, trivial, dummy, loser, rash, thick, unintelligent, brainless, dazed, deficient, dense, dim, doltish, dopey, gullible, half-baked, half-witted, idiotic, imbecilic, inane, indiscreet, insensate, meaningless, mindless, moronic, nonsensical, obtuse, out to lunch, pointless, puerile, simpleminded, slow, sluggish, stolid, stupefied, thick-headed, unthinking, witless) so that you become tasty food for this world. In this world full of individualism, you need to prove a value of yourself to a level to survive. Education system makes us valuable for companies to work for them and get paid. We have to try to make ourselves strong enough but no need to forget the fullness. Who is strong; one who is fully focused to make strong himself or who is sharing his strength to all? One who is snatching (stealing, grabbing, grasping, seizing, taking) form each and everyone (weak and poor) to grow himself, to make himself strong; is he strong? Or one who is open to infinity to share? If you take from infinity, what will be the rest? Now look at your ideals (idols); you dream to be like them, how tiny they are and same will happen to you when will become like them. They are ill-natured, they are trapped in narrowness, full of greed.
Other point of view is infinity; wave is made of water, it is a shape of water. Reality, infinity is water; illusion is wave. Wave (form of water) is also changing every moment. It is not in permanent shape as individual too. To comprehend it; stand in front of mirror and look at your photograph ten year old. Which one is real one; Now or before?
Every moment wave shape is changing but water is never changing. Wave is delusion, world is living in this delusion (misconception, misbelief, deception, fantasy, hallucination, illusion, pipe dream, apparition, blunder, casuistry, chicanery, daydream, deceptiveness, dream, error, fallacy, fancy, figment, ghost, lapse, mirage, misapprehension, mistake, oversight, phantasm, phantom, self-deception, shade, speciousness, spuriousness, trickery, trip, vision, eidolon, false impression, fool's paradise, head trip, ignis fatuus, optical illusion). This is our narrow mindedness.
Fact never changes; was, is, will; this water. As water we are unlimited; as canal, we are limited. Big canal, big limited and so on. World is naming and calling you big but you have becoming small and small ..... This is result of narrow mindedness.
Now look at openness; it doesn't matter that you are very poor or king. Now you are not looking at wave or canal; now you are looking at water. As water, we all human beings are same; parents, kids, friends. We are already in combination to each other or do we need some struggle to come together. Where is problem, where is death? How can you kill water, no way?
Wave has no protection, no safety. With changing point of view, the whole scenario changes.
If you notice some wave is coming to you with bad intention, now you have to show the value, courage, bravery to handle the situation. In this struggle, if you die, it's acceptable. Now you are not narrow mindedness. Wave has limitation, water has no limitation. Deep within, beyond that, this is very source of this universe, very essence of this universe. Real beauty is that your thinking is magnifying to infinity. Real beauty is within 
you.
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